What holiday are you grateful for?
Day #11 of the 30 Days of Gratitude prompts asks us which holiday we appreciate the most. My answer is that I enjoy most of the ones we celebrate here in the United States.
Holidays usually mean time off from work and the fast paced lives we lead. However, getting ready for the celebrations themselves can be a lot of work!
Thanksgiving has always been one of my favorites. Who doesn’t enjoy a day filled with delicious foods, family, and playing board games or watching football?
I have fond memories of waking up to the sounds of pots and pans banging around in the kitchen. The unmistakable aroma of stuffed turkey wafted up the stairs, as I scrambled out of bed to watch the Macy’s parade on TV. I marveled at the size of the giant balloons and always wished I could be in New York City for the festivities.
Against the cacophony of the hand mixer and other assorted sounds, I could hear my mom and grandma (fighting) in the kitchen. My dad would warn us not get “underfoot.”
I helped set the table using the good china and gold flatware. We used a fancy table cover and cloth napkins and some years I even made small place cards. We lit the candles with their autumn flower rings, enjoying the scent of cinnamon and apples. Some years we had wine and the children were given a small glass. I didn’t care much for the taste in those days, but certainly enjoy a Cabernet today!
We looked forward to the yummy desserts, as well. Apple pie was my favorite and I came to appreciate pumpkin pie (with a healthy dollop of whipped cream) in my later years. There were usually cookies, a nut roll and other assorted goodies.
All of these memories come flooding back as the sights, sounds, and smells occur every year. Of course, the setting has changed and the people have grown up and grown old. Some are no longer with us.
What remains the same are the emotions that all of the familiar sights and sounds evoke. These feelings of anticipation, gratitude, and nostalgia are an important part of the magic that makes holidays so special!