3 Important Reasons Not To Be “Siloed”

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You remember the silo, right?

Those tall cylindrical structures you’d see on a farm, sometimes standing next to the barn.

As a kid, I remember drawing pictures of farms and always including the silo. We learned that grain was kept there and I thought it was pretty cool; so tall and skinny. Until a classmate talked about what would happen if you fell in one. 

Childrens' drawing of red barn & siloThe thought scared me. It seemed like the equivalent of falling in a well, only you wouldn’t be underground. Still, it could be a long drop (depending on how much grain was in there) and it would be really dark.

But, like so many other words, silo has taken on a new definition. I was unaware of this until reading an article last week where the author talked about a group of people being “siloed.”

I immediately opened a new tab and searched for the word. The cylindrical structure definition was there, along with several variations of the new one, which read:

silo/siloed – to isolate (one system, process, or department) from others.

It’s a business term and refers to how an organization is structured. 

Then I noticed silo mentality which refers to a mindset that occurs when certain departments don’t wish to share information with others in the same company.

I found this surprising because that attitude would certainly create problems within an organization. And, just as expected, it’s been determined that the silo mentality produces some negative effects. Below are the three reasons we shouldn’t allow ourselves to be siloed or to silo someone else.

Reason #1

The silo mentality can reduce the efficiency of the overall operation. Anytime communication breaks down there are bound to be problems. Whether it’s a corporation or a household, strong connections between the various members are vital to success.

Reason #2

Another ill effect is that morale goes downhill. People don’t appreciate being left in the dark. If it’s intentional that makes it even worse. When efficiency goes down  (See #1) everyone suffers.

Reason #3

If Reasons 1 & 2 go unchecked then the demise of a productive company culture is likely to occur. 

Imagine if this were a household where multiple family members stopped communicating:

  • Mom forgot to tell Dad that she needs him to pick up the kids from a soccer scrimmage because she has a hair appointment.
  • Dad forgets to tell Mom that he has a business dinner that evening.
  • The kids forget to tell their parents that the scrimmage was rescheduled at the competitor’s field.
  • Neither parent can pick up the kids, so they call Grandma at the last-minute. She rushes to the school only to find an empty field.

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It doesn’t take long for systems to break down when people don’t share information. What would happen to society and all the organizations within it?

And what if governments operated this way? 

Why would anyone deliberately isolate themselves against other members of the same group?  Doesn’t this go against the concept of teamwork, a term borrowed from sports that became widely popular in business?

We see these situations with children and young people when they deliberately exclude other youngsters from their social activities.

I see this as a form of passive bullying. Remember all the siloing that went on in school? I hated when this happened to classmates and tried to reach out and be extra nice to those kids being targeted.

Sadly, it occurs with adults, as well. 

Don’t we have enough walls and barriers in our world?

The thought of falling into a silo still scares me. Being isolated from others and kept in the dark, whether literally or figuratively, doesn’t sound like a whole lot of fun.

I believe there’s strength in numbers, which is why I’ll stick with the barn. It’s big enough for everyone!


 

 

 

 

 

 

What Do You Hear?

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Care for yourself enough to listen carefully to what you say to yourself. ~ Willis Goth Regier, In Praise of Flattery, 2007

Is It OK to Be Needy?

 

The word “needy” has always gotten a bad rap, but is being needy really such a bad thing?

“Give to the needy,” is a familiar phrase during holiday food and toy drives, with needy referring to those less fortunate than ourselves.

“You’re so needy,” is a statement I’ve heard one person tell another in a variety of circumstances:

  • parent to child
  • partner to partner
  • friend to friend
  • employer to employee

What they’re really saying is, “You’re expecting too much from me” which connotes something negative and refers to a relationship that has gone out of balance. In some cases this is true; but not always.

The video clip features Dr. Sue Johnson, a respected psychologist who specializes in couples therapy. With her is a panel of therapists discussing the issue of neediness between partners. It’s only a bit over six minutes, but touches on the important points of healthy relationships that I believe carry over from specifical couples to ALL relationships:

  • Humans are wired for interdependency
  • Dependency needs vary from family to family; therefore, couples must learn to strike a balance
  • The ability to be a part of a team AND an individual, at the same time, take maturity and skill
  • Oftentimes people view needing another as a sign of weakness when in reality having someone we can trust and rely on makes us stronger
  • Codependency is an unhealthy, out of balance state, whereby one person regulates their emotions based on their partner’s behavior

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As long as our needs don’t cross over the boundaries of the other person, they’re probably within reason. If our expectations allow them to remain an individual and true to themselves, then that relationship stands a good chance of success!   🙂