Happy Monday | How To Be More Productive This Week

IMG_9990Mondays are great for starting new things: diets, books, exercise programs, etc.

Is there a task that’s been on your mind, but you just haven’t gotten around to it? 

For me, it’s a never-ending list. I’m the typical Liberal Arts major with a variety of interests:

  • Cooking
  • Reading
  • Photography
  • Continuing Ed
  • Crafts

I’m trying to experiment with a (mostly) vegetarian diet, so that means exploring various cooking blogs. Gone are the days when we had a couple of recipe books to consult. Now the Internet offers too many resources and I find myself scrolling endlessly.

The list of books I want to read is fairly extensive, as well. Classics, nonfiction, memoirs…they’re all fair game.

Regardless of my location or activity, I’m always looking for the next great photo. I’ve accumulated so many there’s now a backlog to edit and categorize.

I also enjoy taking online courses and my desire “to get crafty” goes back to kindergarten.


To Do List, Notebook, iPhone, and markers

However, the first order of business is completing the unfinished items on the “to do” list.

I have a habit of starting new projects before finishing current ones. Ultimately, I find myself feeling overwhelmed.

There’s a wealth of articles about how to get organized both mentally and physically. In addition, there are also many tools available, both digital and physical to help us accomplish this. 

While the particular methods may vary from one individual to the next, the following three suggestions are a good place to get started:

  1. Brainstorm a Blueprint

Remember that there’s only so much time in a day (or a week, month, etc.) Creating a list that’s realistic will increase our chances for success. We can always update as we go along. Keep the list to a sensible size: fifteen items are intimidating, while five seems doable. Feeling like we can accomplish our goals makes it more likely to occur.

Some tasks are time-sensitive. Prioritizing our list according to impending deadlines is important. If we have overnight company coming it’s best to finish painting the guest room before cleaning the garage.

We should also prioritize based on other criteria: how long will the job take? Is it an inside or outside job? Is weather an issue? What other obligations are coming up on our calendars?

Taking these things into consideration will result in a more practical blueprint.

  1. Choose and Use

It’s easy to plan out things in our heads because that can be done anywhere, simultaneously with other tasks. I’ll go over what I need to do while driving, eating, working, doing laundry, exercising, etc. Sometimes I even do this while sleeping!

However, until I get it out of my brain very little actually gets done. There are so many things and people competing for our time that it’s easy to get distracted.

My personal favorite is a spreadsheet. It can be modified, stored digitally, and printed out as needed.

Choose your favorite method and use it consistently.

  1. Less is More

They say that a messy desk is the sign of genius and that may be true. But, I’m a less is more kind of girl.

It’s easier to focus when the workspace contains only what’s needed for the current project. Extra items can distract us from our work. A pile of mail may remind us of a bill that needs to be paid or an RSVP that must be mailed.

In some cases, we stop what we’re doing altogether and switch to something else. At the very least we lose time thinking about other things and then trying to get back on track. This is disastrous in terms of time management.

Remember:  Distractions = wasted time


Organization

There are many more suggestions to becoming better organized and to accomplish that we must adapt our needs to our personal style. Doing it in a way that’s enjoyable will boost our chances of achieving our goals.

 I’m going to take my own advice and start with a short, doable list like the one above. Then I’m going to arrange it in a spreadsheet and make sure my workspace includes only what I need. 

Of course, I’m always open to new ideas…

What tips have helped you become more productive?

 

 

 

 

 

The Daily Post | Corner

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The Daily Post: Corner

This photo was taken at the Twentieth Century Club in Pittsburgh several years ago. I had the pleasure of attending an event that my employer was sponsoring. And what a beautiful venue it is!

As always, I look for subjects that make great photos and this one fit the theme for this week’s photo challenge.

The artistic murals offered a lovely narrative from far away lands, while the antique furnishings complimented the elegant decor of this magnificent club. With a vintage radiator to chase away the chills on frigid winter nights, I could spend time here with a good book and cup of hot tea. 

But this particular evening was a spring/summer affair and more about cocktails and socializing…we had a terrific time!


 

Weekend Coffee Share: Is There Life After Hate?

Weekend Coffee ShareIf we were having coffee I’d want to discuss how the world got another big dose of hate this past week with Charlottesville on August 11/12 and again in Barcelona on August 17. 

Less than a week apart, these horrific events always leave me feeling sick and wondering if we ever truly recover. “We” being the vast majority of the human race who reject hatred and those who espouse it.

Sure, we’ll mourn the dead, pray for the injured, and clean up the debris. We’ll leave flowers, flags, and stuffed animals at the site of the massacre.

We’ll stand in solidarity with our candles to promote love and peace. And these are all necessary gestures to begin the healing process and restore a sense of normalcy back into our world.

But, can we really recover or feel hopeful knowing that it’s just a matter of time until the next terror attack?

I’m not sure, but Joan Baez said that “action is the antidote to despair.” And I agree.

Doing something always feels better than doing nothing.  The sense of helplessness is overwhelming and often prevents us from taking any action. 

So, what is that something?

Well, one way is to share news and articles that can educate and enlighten us regarding the problems we face. There’s a lot of (dare I say it) fake news out there.

We have to be careful regarding who our sources are. Of course, there are right and left-leaning outlets, but I’m talking about those who have established reputations versus those who don’t.

Other options for anyone wanting to lessen their feelings of despair come from the Southern Poverty Law Center who recently posted 10 ways to fight hate.

Regardless of what avenues we choose, we must do them in the spirit of compassion and understanding. I know that’s a very tall order and one I grapple with all the time. My first reaction, when faced with opposing opinions and ideologies, is pretty negative. 

Obviously, many people struggle with these kinds of emotions. However, I don’t believe we can win the war on hate with hate. 

The following article and information explain further.


Former White Nationalist

Credit: Teresa Crawford/AP

It’s the story of Christian Picciolini, a former skinhead who renounced his relationship with the neo-Nazi movement in 1996.

He co-founded Life After Hatewhose mission statement says that they’re dedicated to inspiring individuals to a place of compassion and forgiveness, for themselves and for all people.

As a “lost and lonely” teenager, Christian was recruited by a white nationalist organization in the late 80s. He became the leader of a Chicago area group by age 16. 

The birth of his first child when he turned 19 was the catalyst for breaking ties with the white supremacists, which occurred several years later.

He understands how young people fall prey to these types of hate-mongers.

Christian knows from his own experience that the youngsters are searching for three fundamental human needs: identity, community, and a sense of purpose. Those who don’t find this are the ones targeted by the hate groups. 

You can walk into any high school and find those marginalized kids who’ve been bullied and/or dismissed by the majority.

They’re not accepted into the various cliques. They’re not good-looking enough, or athletically inclined, or smart enough.

They wear the wrong clothes and live in the wrong neighborhood. They may speak differently or be the wrong color.  

That sense of rejection spawns feelings of worthlessness that eventually grow into anger. Left unchecked the anger swells into full-blown hate. Some will turn to drugs and alcohol. Others to crime.

Most will suffer in silence, turning their hate inward. But, some will lash out at others and seek retribution through any channel or group that offers them a feeling of security.


In the short video below, Christian tells the story of how, with the right approach and attitude, there can be life after hate. That approach includes compassion and communication with those we don’t understand.

There’s simply no room for hate when our platform is about acceptance and equal rights.